Ask A Stoned Girl: Sex Swings, Smoking, And Some BDSM

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Weed and light BDSM?



Ask a Stoned Girl: weed, sex, and other quirky topics

From photo submissions to advice requests, we get e-mails from our Stoned Girls fans every day here at the office. Today, we would like to take a minute to 1) Say thank you! and B) answer a very important question. Recently, we got an e-mail from an anonymous man in the states.

It read:

“I have just started reading your articles and I honestly think you are very talented and knowledgeable!!

I have a sex swing and seems like the girl I’m seeing loves having sex while using it. I now recently bought a nipple clamp and a butt plug that I want to use on her. She likes spontaneity, so I thought of putting a blindfold on her while being in a sex swing, then suddenly jam up the butt plug in her (don’t worry, I’ll put enough lube so it won’t hurt) and attach the nipple clamps! Is that something you think she will like? If it was you, how would you like to be introduced into butt plugs and nipple clamps?

Thanks for imparting your wisdom and I look forward to know what you think!”

Well, Mr. Anonymous, first we would like to congratulate you on finding the best girl on the planet. You are very lucky and no doubt very handsome!

Second, we really like how adventurous you are! It seems like your special lady is pretty open to new and exciting things in the bedroom, but we do have some advice on how to make this happen in the safest and most pleasurable way for the both of you.

Our first recommendation is to make sure both of you smoke beforehand. It will relax you both and make you way more patient for this process.

Anal Play

Just because your girl likes spontaneity doesn’t mean she’s up for anal surprises. Trust us when we say that springing that sort of thing on a girl unannounced can result in less-than-favorable consequences. Suddenly “jamming” something into her will probably make her panic, unless you guys have previously tried and liked anal sex.

If you have frequently engaged in anal play in the past, I would say using the butt plug while she was blindfolded isn’t the worst idea, but like you said make sure you use PLENTY of lube. And don’t ever jam anything in there. Ease it in and it will be much more satisfactory for her.

If you guys have not had any anal adventures, starting with a surprise butt plug isn’t a good idea. We recommend blindfolding her on the sex swing and testing the waters with a finger first. If she doesn’t object to that, you can move on to a very small butt plug. Once she is used to that, you can go larger. Remember proper anal does take time and patience. And again, have her smoke a bit before you guys get hot and heavy so she can be as relaxed as possible.

Nipple Clamps

As far as the nipple clamps are concerned, I would recommend the same process. Start small and light and build your way up. The last thing you want to do is hurt her or make her not trust you.

We certainly hope this helps, and please don’t be afraid to let us know how it worked out!

Do you have a question for the Stoned Girls sexperts? Let us know at Rebecca@StonedGirls.com!


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